Law Brother Cousin Marrying

1. Cousins ​​not include a mahram, or a married woman is forbidden, as AQS An Nisa verse 23."Forbidden unto you (marriage) mother-your mother, your children are girls; the women's brothers, your fathers brothers are women; The brothers mother is female; daughters of your brothers are male; daughters of your brothers are women; mothers who breast-feed-your mother you; sepersusuan sister, wives, mothers (in law); the children that the wife of the wife who has been pemeliharaanmu you interfere, but if you have not mixed with wife had (and have you divorced), then you marry her innocent, (and forbidden) wives kandungmu children (laws); and gather (in marriage), two female siblings, except that has occurred in the past; Allah Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful ".The purpose of this paragraph is the mother of mothers, grandmothers and so on upwards. and the meaning of girl is the daughter, granddaughter and so on down, so did others. is being referred to children who in pemeliharaanmu wife, according to scholars Jumhur including stepchildren who are not in their maintenance.So that is allowed to marry a cousin. Although the Holy Prophet never recommend to choose women who are far closer than the women who nasabnya for bad genes do not accumulate in their offspring.3. To explain to the parents, it is necessary to communicate the proper technique. Keep endeavor because you might not need a short time to get ridlo parents. This could be because of their ignorance and need an explanation .. Maximize your time to worship him. Expand Salih prayer and charity. Put yourself in Him. If necessary, ask for help to the scholars who are able to explain about the law mahram in Islam to your parents. But that does not mean that your cousin is not a mahram then you can free dating, still keep the relationship in accordance with things that are loved by God. Hopefully get a love-Nya.amin Andapun ..And Allaah knows best bisshawab,